Sometimes we all need to remind ourselves that we do a lot — and not so much rest on our laurels as to acknowledge the good work accomplished, with a nice “atta-girl” pat on our own backs.
For caregivers, that is especially essential because we can feel our lives to be nothing more than a Sisyphean task wending its way as so many cycles of frustration and grief.
Successes though, do happen, and should be celebrated!
My big success has been the introducing companion care to Jed. For three hours, two days a week, he meets a lovely lady who hangs out with him. It is a bit rocky at times — because it is kind of hard to get to know someone new in the best of circumstances — but they persevere!
Jed and his companion have chitter-chattered, gone for a walk to our favorite local Pizzeria, tried and failed to do a crossword puzzle and two or three art projects, but through it all, it has given Jed someone new to engage with, no mean feat in the pandemic era, which has enforced isolation.
The other laurel I am allowing myself to take a bow for, is gaining approval for Jed to have in-home physical therapy. Provided by the Visiting Nurse Service of New York, he will have two weekly sessions aimed at helping him regain his physical stamina, muscle tone, and flexibility. And the timing couldn’t be more perfect! With Spring underway, there is no better period to walk about the side-streets and parks of Brooklyn as flowers begin to bloom and bird migrations fill our skies with beautiful sights and sounds.
And finally, Jed had his jab number four yesterday, with the fervent hope that he continues to remain COVID free!
So, yup! Three-cheers to myself for this week’s accomplishments. I’ll take them where I can find them.
The Visiting Nurse Service of New York (VNSNY), is part of a national network of organizations providing home health care services. A doctor can put in an order for a range of services including, skilled nursing, home health aid, and rehabilitation services.
Hip-hip, hooray! Hip-hip, hooray! Hip-hip, hooray! ❤
Congratulations on this great news, Malissa! You have many, many laurels to be proud of. Can’t wait to see you in a few weeks!
Thank you, Karin! And yes! Three weeks!
Just talked to Jed. He sounded good. Told me about trying to get in shape. Brilliant move on your part to get a companion and a trainer. I am trying to figure out a train trip to NYC soon to see you. Not sure when yet. I have a carpenter coming hopefully on Monday to to interior work on some windows and bookshelves so I am emptying the library now. Trying to purge books. It’s hard. Back to it. Much love to you and for your amazing care of Jed. XOP
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So far so good! Love you!
Thanks Patti! He was so happy to speak with you. He’ll get four weeks of PT at home. Good luck purging! Hope to see you very soon. XOXO M